Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Young Pastor --- Older Congregation


Young Pastor: Old Congregation

As a 29 year old pastor and a full time student at seminary, I have observed two things. One young pastors, or pastors in training such as myself are being sent out or appointed to local churches that are declining in vitality. My second observation being that these declining churches are comprised of individuals whom are increasing in age. Questions I have to follow these observations are: With the obvious generational gaps, language, technology, and social barriers between younger generations and older generations why would the bishop appoint a young pastor to an elderly church? (is it primarily because we work for less money?) My next question would be wouldn't an older or middle aged person be able to relate to that congregation more naturally as they have had more life experience? My last question would be does the bishop think that if they appoint a younger person to a congregation comprised of aged and aging individuals that they can somehow magically increase the amount of young people in worship and on membership roles? I have been in my setting for 5 months; I had a few, very precious, younger generation families in my congregation before my arrival, I surely have not scared them off and I even more surely have not gained any new younger individuals or families. However I have gained at least 3 individuals/guests who are of the older generations.
My next question would be that of relevance, so what’s the point? Why not appoint a young in seminary person at a large church under a successful pastor so that young pastor in training could gain experience church work from a successful pastor? And then my next more deeper question would be are the younger generation age groups the main targets we as a church are looking to catch or evangelize or add to our congregations? Or do we need to reevaluate what vitality means and the age groups that can bring that vitality.
My answers, I cannot really answer on why the Bishop does what he (or she in some cases) does, it is a mystery that I will probably take to the pearly gates with me, I have learned not to complain about the appointment process but to search for the joy it brings and revel in that joy. Would a young pastor be successful in an older congregation, it depends, if that younger person intends to initiate change and drastically effect worship and the social norms of that church before forming relationships I believe that person will fail miserably. Relationship building being the key to this last sentence. Are the younger generations the main target to keeping or making the church vital I would say yes and no. Younger generations can bring a vitally to the church that allows the church to outlive its life, as in, the more younger people a church has the longer the church will survive until the doors close because the younger generations are still active and vital to the church's ministries. Is taking a look at church vitality something that is important and needed, yes without a doubt! Can an congregation comprised of middle aged and older aged individuals make their declining church into a vital church yes without a shadow of a doubt! Does that vitality include evangelizing to the younger generations, possibly but it does not hinge on it.
I will address more of these issues in my next blog, I will end with this. You younger generational pastors/preachers that are reading this, do not lose heart and focus on building relationships before you make changes! You older congregation members that are reading this do no lose heart, I love you, I know you have passions that outlive my life, God has seen the work and time you have put into your church over all these years, your cries have not fallen on deaf ears, now is your time to shine we can come together and become a vital, fruitful, 'young' congregation!

Edumacation

So Ya'll know by now that I am a student at Saint Paul School of Theology in Kansas City MO



I have about 53 credit hours of a 90 hour degree, I'm almost there... I do a lot of writing and reading and other homework assignments for this degree. One of my classes this semester is introduction to Evangelism. For this class we were to write three blog entries about evangelism and the theology behind it. SO I have decided to share my theological evangelism blogs with you my faithful readers.



So this is just a pre-blog warning you all that the next THREE blogs will be purely theological in nature, not to worry tho I haven't gone over the deep edge theologically...yet...:-)

If you feel like it I'd appreciate your comments! :-)

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Haloween!

SO WOW its been almost 5 months since ive updated my blog...YIKES! life has been CRAZY!

Here are a few pics from Halloween... I hope to post another blog soon.


PUMPKIN CARVING!


PUMPKIN PATCH


MARIO!


SPIDERMAN!

He had a great time and now I'm looking for creative ways to get rid of all the excess candy! ideas?

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

a MUCK w/change

3 great things to celebrate

1. Spring 2011 semester is over! AND I maintained my 3.0+ average gpa
2. Summer semester is over and I got an A!!!! my first 4.0 semester!
3. Im starting a new Job July 1st at a church (I cannot make details public at this
moment but I will post about this job as soon as I can. this is THE job Ive been waiting for since I started seminary HUGE deal for me!)


LOTS of wonderful things happening in my life! God truly has heard my prayers and has answered them! I am SO grateful!

2 BIG changes happening soon:
1. Nate and I are moving into a smaller apartment on campus, he sleeps in my room (in his own bed) most nights anyway so, I decided it would be best if we downsized. (its cheaper and less space to worry about cleaning) I would LOVE to make this move organized and orgainze my apartment better than my current one so that when life gets stressfull my place isn't a Muck. Anybody have ideas on how to orgainze a small space and keep it orgainzed??? I'd love your help! I am an utter failure at being a housemaker person so I need all the help I can get.

2. New JOB, I am nervous about how N will react. Im tossing up the idea of finding a babysitter for Sunday's so I can give 100% to my congregation, but that is quite difficult. Any volunteers? (lol!) Does anybody know of a Single Mom and Preacher?? I'd love to meet with you and chat with you and get all your secrets of how you do it ALL???!!!?!!!!

I pray that God gives me the Grace to take this fear of change and these nerves/anxiousness away from me, fill me with faith strength and energy to do it all, and do it well. I also hope that I can move and get 100% settled in the new place before July 1/the new job starts. Your prayers and help is highly welcomed!!!

I hope you all are having a great summer so far. I plan on taking N swimming several times this summer and will hopefully have pictures to post soon.



Wednesday, May 18, 2011

WAR

Hi Blog fans...if there are any?!

I think its sad that it has been nearly 2 months since I've posted, I apologize to those who check my blog regularly, now you have something new to read, yippee!!!

Well I've finished my spring 2011 term! I am guessing that I'll have B's all the way around, which for me is great! Those who don't have to work two jobs, raise a young child alone, are more sane, can have those A's they're all yours. I will however stick with doing the best I can with the resources and time I have, and praise God for the B's I earn!

SO you may now be wondering what my title of my blog is... yes seminary or grad school is like War because we are all battling the books, papers, sylabi and time, but I read a devotion today and was enlightened and would like to share this with all of you who may be struggling with 'War'.

Truly Human:
In addition to the battle to "get ahead," there is another:
this other war is the war not to conquer but the war to become whole and at peace inside our skins. It is a war not of conquest now but of liberation because the object of this other war is to liberate that dimension of self-hood which involves the capacity to forgive and to will the good not only of the self but of all other selves. This other war is the war to become human being. This is the goal that we are really after and that God is really after. This is the goal that power, success, and security are only forlorn substitutes for. This is the victory that not all our human armory of self-confidence and wisdom and personality can win for us-not simply to be treated as human but to become at last truly human. --Frederick Buechner---


The questions that remain for me are:
How much Longer will this 'War' Last?
Am I truly Human and
Are You Truly Human?


JUST MY THOUGHTS...BE ENCOURAGED...STAY ENCOURAGED!

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Tenth Avenue North - You Are More

OK

SO I've gotten on this song kick lately... this SONG ROCKS!... I think about my sisters, all of them blood related and not... we all struggle with past decisions, thank you JESUS for remaking all of us, please allow us to step into this new life you have created for us and thrive in your love, and please God regardless of where our paths take us please please please allow us to remember Who and Whose we are!!!



Thank YOU!

Love,
~B~

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Laura Story - Blessings

This SONG rocks my socks off! Read the words, Listen to the song, Apply it to Your Life. I'M bout to SHOUT up in here! waaaa!!! OH but N is asleep I gotta watch myself!



The words:

We pray for blessings
We pray for peace
Comfort for family, protection while we sleep
We pray for healing, for prosperity
We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering
All the while, You hear each spoken need
Yet love is way too much to give us lesser things

‘Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise

We pray for wisdom
Your voice to hear
We cry in anger when we cannot feel You near
We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love
As if every promise from Your Word is not enough
All the while, You hear each desperate plea
And long that we'd have faith to believe

When friends betray us
When darkness seems to win
We know that pain reminds this heart
That this is not our home

What if my greatest disappointments
Or the aching of this life
Is the revealing of a greater thirst this world can't satisfy
What if trials of this life
The rain, the storms, the hardest nights
Are your mercies in disguise


JESUS! LORD JESUS! YOUR MERCY! WOW!

~Bec